My first post of the Year and Damn it’s Controversial!
Okay this is one of that post that is gonna get me a lot of hate from a lot of the sections of the society but one thing I have always been proud of is maintaining a raw unfiltered sense of opinion. (Sorry I don’t give a fuck)
Let me start with my unfiltered thought first
Alphas don’t need to get married and marriage as a constitution is designed to serve Aging women and Beta males.
Yes, you heard it right. If you are an alpha male, I don’t think getting married can benefit you in any way or form.
The constitution of marriage as it is designed right now, only serves two parties “Aging or undesirable women and beta males”.
First, lets go back in time, “Marriage as a lawful contract was invented to ensure survival of the offsprings born between men and women”.
Millions or thousands of years back, alphas choose to have the pick of their women from the tribe to impregnate and have sexual relationships with (usually the young, beautiful and highly sought after women) while betas were left fighting over the less desirable and aging women.
If as a women you were impregnated by an alpha back then, you had two choices, either raise the child on your own or marry a beta provider to help you raise the child.
Alphas were always involved with multiple women and never had to share their resources with one single women until they decided to do so. While betas were left trying to woo the women Alphas had already spoiled.
Betas by nature have provider genes and hence tend to look for marriage to ensure at least one of their offsprings pass on to the next gene pool. While Alphas enjoy harem of women wanting to fuck them to pass on their superior genes.
It’s brutal but it’s nature. Nature by default want the superior genes to be passed on and weaker genes to falter.
Women subconsciously are programmed to look for superior genes to birth their offsprings as it ensures longterm survival. Hence women are naturally attracted to Alpha Males during their ovulation period and if nature had its way, beta males will never be able to birth another child.
But society as a whole won’t like this kind of natural selection (Since majority of guys are betas) and henceforth marriage was made a legal contract to ensure betas get an equal chance to pass on their genes.
Also, From male perspective, men are genetically programmed to go for the beautiful and young females when they want to spread their genes, as it ensures long term survival for their offsprings. Historically, beautiful women used to enjoy higher status than the average ones in the tribe, thus giving them access to better mates and more resources.
But with the constitution of marriage in place, women, irrespective of their beauty now have been protected by a legal contract to ensure they get to raise their child with a man of their choosing. Also, it’s usually the Aging and undesirable women who tend to start looking for marriage as they understand, their days of indiscriminate sex with Alpha males is over and no Alpha male is looking to settle down with them.
Hence marriage as a social construct provides stability to women who are less desirable or becoming less desirable with age. These Women who usually enjoy hypergamy (the act of marrying a person of a superior caste or class) end up choosing a hard working Beta Male provider who believes he is getting the prize.
Now, in all fairness, this is my humble opinion and perspective. I have a tendency to look at the world the way it is rather than painting an unreal pseudo picture that is far removed from the reality.
All said and done, Getting married is a personal decision and you should weigh the pros and cons before you decide if it is for you or not and if you do, don’t blame the society or your family if it doesn’t work out as you expected, just saying.
